single women – Julie de Vivre

Why I Quit Dating Apps

Over the past decade, I dived into dating apps in earnest, looking for the one — only to be disappointed and bored. I quit.

Being confident doesn't mean going after him. It's knowing your worth, it's preserving your dignity, it's putting up with no sh*t.

If I can’t imagine a future with someone within the first few dates, I probably never will. And then it's sayonara.

When you’re single, no man has a hold on your heart, mood, emotions, time... no one has the power to shift the winds of your day. Single = safe.

We are so obsessed with being liked that we don’t even think about whether or not WE LIKE THEM...

Hint: It's more than "not cheating."

“I’d rather be single.” I’ve been coming to this realization, slowly but surely, over the last decade.