I’ve quit jobs that stopped fulfilling me and left employers that didn’t value my contributions. I’ve quit relationships that were unhealthy and emotionally burdensome. I’ve quit responding to or engaging with people that demand emotional labor from me, cause me negativity, or give nothing back. I’ve quit allowing things I don’t like and don’t interest me to consume my time and my mental energy. I’m proud to be a quitter... because you know what is worse? Sticking with something that’s not fulfilling, fruitful, or dysfunctional.
Tag: sunk cost fallacy
Why We Should Stop Looking for Soulmates
11 years ago, I traveled to Greece for the first time. It had been a few years since my verbally abusive relationship ended; but during that trip, I felt like I had finally healed and was ready to date again. I was also in my mid 20s, and starting to feel the pressures from society. When would I get engaged? Would I hit the milestones I was supposed to in the right time frame? Were we dating in vain, or was my partner going to propose? Now, in my mid-30s, my outlook on marriage and relationships has completely changed. I believe some people are only meant to stay in your life for a season, and that longevity is not the primary goal. I also discuss the sunk cost fallacy. Read on...
